To know if you're afraid to love and to be loved, answer these questions by choosing a, b, or c.

Q1: Nine o'clock in the evening and you're still at work. Your boyfriend invites you out for a meal:
a- Sorry, I'm working on a file for tomorrow.
b- The file can wait until the morning!
c- If he really likes me, he'll wait until the weekend.

Q2: You're in a bar and a sexy blonde is making eyes at your man:
a- You turn away and think of something else.
b- You lean in for a passionate kiss to remind him who he's out with.
c- She's gorgeous, he's bound to fancy her!

Q3: He tells you he's madly in love with you:
a- Words are words, you need solid proof!
b- You fling your arms around his neck, you're so happy!
c- How can you tell her means it?

Q4: As a little girl, when you told your parents that one day you'd find your Prince Charming, they said:
a- Haven't you got any homework to do?
b- Of course you will darling, he'll be very special!
c- Prince Charming doesn't exist, sweetheart.

Q5: You'll be ready for the love of your life:
a- When things have calmed down a little for you.
b- When you meet him.
c- When you feel better about yourself.

Q6: You find an anonymous love letter on your doormat:
a- You give it a glance and throw it away.
b- Maybe it's the handsome neighbour...
c- Somebody's pulling your leg...

Q7: Five days have gone by and he hasn't called. You think:
a- Too bad, there are plenty more fish in the sea!
b- Something terrible must have happened.
c- I must have been rubbish in bed.

Q8: You're at a party and a beautiful stranger is smiling at you:
a- You don't get excited, he's probably got an eye for the ladies.
b- You smile back and make your way over for a chat.
c- You turn around to check out the ravishing beauty he must be after.

Q9: Your best friend has fallen head over heels in love and she's glowing with happiness. You think:
a- One day, maybe it'll be my turn.
b- I can't wait to feel like that!
c- That'll never be me.

Q10: Your partner wants you to buy a house together:
a- You promise to think about it.
b- You start looking for a cosy love nest.
c- You're not sure, what if you break up?

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Results:

If most of your answers were a, then:

No Time for Love...

You'd love to fall in love, but it's just never the right time. Either you're snowed under at work, or you've got problems to sort out in other areas of your life. You're always telling yourself that you'll look for a man when you have more time and feel ready... but something always crops up! You're still convinced that one day you'll find Mr Perfect, but just not at the moment. You're waiting for the sunshine after the rain and concentrating on more earthly matters while you wait for the clouds to disperse. Whenever a friend finds their soulmate, it pricks a little voice inside that wonders if you'll ever be so lucky.
Why not take a little time to think about why you never seem to have time for love? If you don't make room for someone else in your life, you could be left waiting for your knight in shining armour... Have a look at your past. Maybe you were hurt by a difficult break-up. Go back over your failed relationships, accept why they ended and move on. Be open to love and learn to savour each and every moment of pleasure. Enjoying life is the key, othwise, how are you going to be able to enjoy your vie à deux when it comes along?

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If most of your answers are b, then:

You Know no Fear!

You're not afraid of love. You're on the lookout for potential suitors and pick up the right signs, graciously accepting compliments and thoroughly enjoying the chase. But that's all. You don't question your partners' intentions, even when there's a rival for your intended's affections, which means you're comfortable with the knowledge that it's you he really wants. When you come up against a shy guy, you don't take his reserve as a rejection and are even ready to make the first move and get the ball rolling to clarify the situation...
Your behaviour shows that you have great self esteem! No doubt you were brought up to appreciate your real value and be confident of your abilities. You accept yourself just as you are and feel worthy of the love of a good man. This is a healthy attitude to have, but be careful. If you use your natural confidence and charm to play the field with several men at once, or make your partner jealous, it points to exactly the opposite - low self-confidence and neediness. In this case, you to reassess and learn to live more peacefully with yourself.

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If most of your answers are c, then:

Love Isn't For Me

You believe in love... just not for you. You think that your friends are all undoubtedly right and you're happpy for them, but when a man starts coming onto you, more often than not, you're bewildered by it. You can't understand why he's bothering and usually suspect that he's being egged on by his mates, or doing it for a joke. You're too suspicious to give yourself over completely to the seduction game, but you could be missing chances of happiness right left and centre! It's time to think about why you doubt yourself so much.
Why don't you think that men are really interested in you? Maybe you lack confidence, or have such low self-esteem that you can't allow yourself to even entertain the idea. Maybe your family made you feel unattractive when you were little. Try to break free from this attitude which is holding you back. You have to love yourself before you can love someone else! Even liking yourself a little more will make you feel better and your new confidence will shine through and attract potential lovers like moths to a candle. Maybe then you will allow yourself to accept a relationship with someone else.
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